Two brides on their wedding day with elegant hairstyles, showcasing inclusive hair services for LGBTQ weddings.

Queer wedding hair — Chicago

Hair that looks like you, on the day you’re photographed most.

Jackie does wedding hair for couples and the people standing next to them. No bride menu. No groom menu.

Stylist with green hair placing hair pins into low bun

Most wedding hair is built for one kind of wedding.

You’ve seen the photos. A style that belongs to someone else, hair sorted into “bridal” or “groom” before anyone asked what you wanted, a stylist who treats your texture or your short crop as a problem to manage.

You shouldn’t have to explain yourself to t he person doing your hair on such an important day.

Two brides at a stair railing under a chandelier, one in a white suit jacket with a pulled-back style, the other in a half-up wedding hairstyle with a veil and holding white tulips

“I hired Jackie to do hair for my wedding and they were amazing… they did a bunch of different styles for my wedding party, across different textures and ages, and everyone loved how their hair turned out… it was such a joy to find a queer stylist who was supportive and affirming for our very queer wedding, and I can’t recommend them enough!”

— Dani

The gallery

Two brides in an elevator, one with a braided, half-up style and floral embroidered veil, the other seated with a braided side style and bouquet.
Sepia photo of a couple in suits embracing in backlight, both with short side-parted wedding haircuts.

Photo Credit: Alana Jordan

Black and white photo of bride twirling on a staircase in an off-the-shoulder gown, her long loose dark hair in motion
Couple kissing in front of white hydrangeas, one with a low braided bun and pearl hair chain, the other with a short textured side-swept cut

Photo Credit: Chelsea Matson

Photo Credit:

Photo Credit: Tawny Ballard

Two brides having a first look on a Chicago rooftop, one with braided half-up waves and pearl earrings, the other with. a low textured bun, with the skyline and lake behind them

Jackie is a queer, non-binary cosmetologist and barber (they/she) with 16 years behind the chair and weddings since 2020. Short hair doesn’t scare Jackie. Neither do tapered napes, undercuts that want to be hidden, textured curls, or a style that needs to look deliberate in photos. Jackie asks your pronouns, uses them, and starts from how you want to feel in the mirror.

Photo Credit: Christian Blake

jackie gets it.

three steps. no guessing.

Stylist with green hair and tattooed arms using a tail comb on a client's short textured cut at a mirror while getting ready for their wedding

Tell jackie your date.

Your wedding date, where you’re getting ready, and how many people need their hair done.

Stylist's tattooed hand placing a crystal hair comb into a bride's braided low updo

Schedule A TRIAL.

Couples get a trial at Jackie’s salon. Bring photos you love and photos you don’t. The ones you don’t love are just as important.

Smiling bride with dark curly hair in a braided half-up wedding style while a stylist secures their floral embroidered veil

Show up.

Jackie arrives early and brings everything. You sit down, drink your coffee and relax.

Curated Offerings

Close-up of a couple touching noses, one with a braided low bun and pearl hair jewelry, the other with a short side-swept cut, in front of a bright, marigold backdrop
Silhouette of a couple kissing in an arched doorway, one with a low bun, the other with long pink hair worn loose

“Jackie brought such a calm and welcoming vibe to our wedding day (which was more than needed) and it wouldn’t have been the same without them being such a huge part of our day.”

-Adriana
Photo Credit: Vic at RedFilm

Two brides touching foreheads in front of the Chicago skyline, one with natural curls and crystal hair pins, the other with a braided low updo

What it looks like when it works

You see the photos and you recognize yourself. Your hair held through the ceremony, the dance floor, and the last song. Everyone you love got the same care, and nobody was shoved into a box.

Wedding photos last decades. You can spend the day wondering whether the hair looks like you, or you can book with Jackie.

Tell jackie about your day

Have these handy:

  • Your wedding date

  • Where you’re getting ready

  • How many people need hair

  • Photos you love

  • Photos you DON’T want

A short form now, a few more details after. Takes a couple of minutes.
Questions? Email jackie@thisbarberjackie.com

Photo Credit: Nina Marquí

Two brides in short sequin wedding dresses at a piano, one with a sleek low bun, the other with long vivid pink hair worn loose
Moth and moon sitting above the words Moody Wedding Hair

About the name.

Moody Wedding Hair is Jackie’s wedding business. Moody is their roller derby nickname that just stuck.